- 95% NEET -qualified students have been trained at coaching centres. What happens to those students from vernacular medium schools aspiring to follow their dreams in medicine. Oh. Yes. English is must, Right?
- Who dominates? English medium students and CBSE students. If a student studied under state board need not aspire for greater things. Fend for yourself. Coaching centres thrive on high coaching fees. Coaching centres are byproduct of NEET.
- I have seen doctors from poor rural backgrounds who moved ahead against all odds. They are better at treating their patients. There is humanity in them. I also have seen who have minimal contact with patients bent only on taking commission for the tests or medicines they prescribe.
- There is hope. There needs to be much change. However, there are powerful players behind the NEET. Make it accessible and affordable without risking proper learning of medical students.
Thursday, October 21, 2021
Neatness of NEET
Thursday, March 25, 2021
Yes or No
A 'no' can instantly put away an internal inconvenience. But a 'yes' will definitely cause you much trouble as you will weigh the possible consequences in human terms. But a soul attuned to the will of God will be confirmed of His mighty actions - the influence of God in the soul ("the power of the Most High will overshadow you), 'do not be afraid', you have won God's favor not man's'. "Fiat mihi secundum verbum tuum".
The above lines were my WhatsApp status (March 25,2021) post on the solemnity of the Annunciation. I received the following responses to my post:
A friend of mine agreed, "yes it's TRUE. But as human beings, we fail to draw the line as to where we should say No and where we should say YES and then the troubles begin.
My response: Where we should say yes and where we need to say no is an important distinction to be made and is definitely a human dilemma.... imagine you are accompanied by a friend or a travel guide to a place not familiar to you but known to your friend. You trust your friend wherever he or she takes you without ever questioning. I suppose on the way, you ask for directions from someone, it is a direct insult to the friend who is taking you around. You just trust and move on with the firm faith that your friend is trustworthy. You do not have unjust doubts about your friend's possible connection with human trafficking. Say "yes" to all that builds up a person and "no" to all that would bring destruction and unhappiness. Remember, saying "yes" to God is equal to a life of happy inconvenience. For example, saying yes to a man in marriage is a happy inconvenience as you have to live with him for your whole life. It is the exclusion of all other possible men in your life.
Another friend of mine was intrigued by my example of 'doubting the friend with a possible connection with human trafficking.' I explained - if a friend involved in selling human beings for whatever purpose, such a person can cajole you and sell you (your "unquestioned yes" and possible destruction). So a friend is not so much questioned about his intentions. Saying "yes" has consequences. He sought clarity and asked - Are you telling me to say "yes" without unnecessary thinking of the possible mishaps and believe blindly.
Blind belief does not enter the picture. Because "yes" is always an informed consent - will you be my wife? Are you willing to join the Salesians of Don Bosco? Those will involve probing questions like those Mary did ask - How can it be? or like the seminarians who would join you - will I be sent for studies if I join the Salesians? Will I be a saint?
He explained his stand. Mary, having said her yes did not only asked probing questions but did not believe blindly. He went on further If Mary went with haste to the hill country of Judea to meet Elizabeth, in a way it is not blind faith. If she visited Elizabeth, is it not out of her innocence rather than getting upset with the consequences of an action?
I replied- Mary said "yes" to God and His will. This means that there is no wrong in doing God's will without trying to understand His will. Because God is a guarantee. "The power of the Most High will overshadow you," "you will conceive.." If you are still in doubt, a confirmed sign is given to you - a woman (Elizabeth) who was called barren is now in her 6-month pregnancy. Sanctity consists not in understanding God's will but in doing God's will. So there is no importance to blind faith here because "faith is the assurance of the things hoped for and the conviction of things not seen." (Heb 11:1).
If you happen to read this, do you think that it is a play of words as my friend noted? No worry! The problem existed from time immemorial. God was Word. Word was with God. So if we are not in God we will not be able to interpret the original meanings of the Author (God). We will have many towers like Babel. People are getting lost in data and not in relationships. Relationships either with God or with humans bring some or full degree of conflicts. Think about it.
Mary was in a relationship with God, so she got into trouble - became pregnant with God. St. Joseph was in trouble - he is now considered at least by some as the patron saint of holy abstinence.
Just think: What would be the consequences if you say "Yes" to God.
Jordan Peterson. one of the prominent intellectuals in the western world, in one of his interviews, said - when I am asked the question of belief in God, he had different answers - 'Maybe", perhaps yes, etc. He considers the plausibility of belief in Christ. He says, "Christ is a terrifying reality. I do not know what would happen to me if I fully believed." Yes has a consequence. So is acting in the world as though God existed.
Friday, January 1, 2021
What is new in 2021?
ഇന്ന് ജനുവരി 1, 2021, പുതുവർഷത്തിലെ ആദ്യത്തെ ദിവസം. ഞാൻ ജനിച്ച നാളു മുതൽ ഇന്ന് വരെ ഞാൻ 37 നവ വർഷം കണ്ടതാണ്. എന്തു തനിമ ആണ് ഈ വർഷത്തിനുള്ളത്? സംഗീർത്തകൻ പറയുന്നത് പോലെ,
Thursday, December 24, 2020
When God Comes....
When God comes, what happens to you?
- When God came to Mother Mary, she became a Carrier of God. She became pregnant. When she said "yes" to God, it changed her personal life, family life (she was betrothed to Joseph), and the course of the history of the world. Let us say an unconditional yes to God. It will change everything. But the change will always be discomforting (your comfort zone will be affected).
- When God came to Joseph, he was no less affected. He had to discern to first of all to accept or reject the mother of God. He gives the charge of his life to God and allowed God to lead him. Then what happened? He became the protector of the humanity and divinity of Christ. When God comes you will go to any extend, wade through difficult waters of all sorts of inconveniences.
- However, when God comes to a ruler (Herod), it really unsettled him (in fact the entire Judea was shaken). He never allowed his impulsivity to be transformed, it led to violence and destruction. Herod is like some of us who pushes our plans and fail to know the ways of God.
Saturday, November 21, 2020
A Mandala Drawing Reveals So much!!
Explanation of Mandala
In the outer circle, I used the
symbol signifying a ‘down-up’ or ‘up-down’. This representation is an answer to
the question- how does the concept of self evolve in the life span of an
individual? I am part of a dual ‘up-down’ or ‘down-up’ movement. In the process
of an ‘up-down’ movement, everything is a given – the gift of life, the
situation I am born into, my upbringing, historical circumstances, health,
parents, name, friends, etc. This is the revelatory aspect of life itself.
Everything points to something. Special emphasis is given to the downward
movement in the sense of the ultimate Self (God) coming down as a man. This
means that I understand myself in the larger story of God becoming a man (Jesus).
Everything stands revealed in Jesus. This has a theological underpinning in the
context of revealed religion, especially Christianity. God becomes human to
make me into the image of himself. As opposed to the concept of
self-realization propounded by Carl Jung, I realize myself in God. It is
divinization. What is involved here is the ‘making sense of the given’. This
making sense of what is given is the process of ‘down-up’. Moving upward is
taking into consideration all that is revealed, the beliefs that I share
with the community or tradition I belong to, and the personalization of it
comes through a personal search. When nature is sustained by grace, there
is a fulfillment and a constant drive towards ‘that which fully satisfies’ (God).
The second circle is the ‘eye’
representing the senses. The senses are the windows to the knowledge of the self.
The physical senses help the ‘inner eye’ to perceive the depth of realities.
The world around us can affect us either positively or negatively. I cannot
really realize myself as I am exposed to numerous obstacles – addictions,
violence, corruption, ignorance, betrayals, greed, power struggles, and
numerous other growth stunting influences. The heroes move ahead with a new
narrative to the crippling experiences of life although they cannot change or undo
what happened. What brings to my mind is the story of Joseph in the Old
Testament. He was sold into Egypt by his own brothers (betrayal of trust), in
Egypt, the wife of Potiphar tried to seduce him (sexual temptations), the
goodness and the good sense in him raised him to a high position. He narrated
his life from a divine perspective. Understanding life experiences from a
divine perspective helps one not to become bitter but helps him/her live
his/her life better.
The third circle is the ‘yin and
Yang’ symbol. This represents the most common experience of human reality – the
good and the evil, light, and darkness, optimism and pessimism, order and chaos.
Our personality too has this dual nature
characterized by the tendency to do good and to do evil. The evil always lurks
behind us. I believe that everyone has an Achilles heel or what the
Greek literature calls, ‘hubris.’ I call it as a limitation in every man/
woman. Carl Jung would call it shadow. Man cannot contain the evil in
himself. The mass genocide, the final solution of the Nazis, the violence
perpetrated by the fanatical groups or the untold wreckages left by wrong
ideologies are historical manifestations of the power of the evil in man. Man,
by nature is not accustomed to chaos and prefers order to chaos. A human being
by nature is good, but his orientation to the good can get corrupted through
negative experiences and events. Hence, containing the evil within or the
corrupting tendencies is an important function of every human being. Everything
cannot be understood with mathematical precision. And so there needs to be
leaning on to what gives ultimate meaning to human existence. I cannot save
myself. I need divine assistance. A final resignation to what is divinely
willed and reconciliation with self, God, the world form part of the inner core
of the self-fulfillment.
The innermost circle is
represented by a ‘directional cross’ surrounded by signs of ‘love’ and ‘drop of
blood’. The directional cross implies
that our suffering has a meaning. It can be understood only from the vantage
point of love. Every human being is loved into existence. However, freedom
in us can choose against divine love. What is necessitated is a shedding of
blood in love. Sacrifice is an essential element of human striving or
divinization. This is also represented in proverbial wisdom – “No pain, no
gain.” The center of the directional cross is the symbol ‘IHS’ for the name
Jesus. For me, the realization of self is possible only through the revealed
name of Jesus. He is not an archetypical figure but a real person in history.
He has won the victory over evil through his suffering. He is victorious and he
rules everything. Surrender to the divine will is a way to attain salvation.
Imageries or interpretative categories are only determinants to arrive at a
concrete person, i.e., Jesus. ‘IHS’ is also a eucharistic symbol, which tells
us of the necessity of ‘remembrance.’ Memory of life events, the processing of
the same play a major role in integration and healing. Healing of negative
emotions and memories, acceptance of what cannot be changed are processes
involved in wholeness.
Monday, September 28, 2020
Facing the Unknown Helps you Reorient
My brother had a fall from the front
parapet of the first floor of the building. He was at work as usual and never
expected to fall. But it did happen. The unknown happened. He felt that the
fall could have either incapacitated him to work again or caused his death. The
people around him instantly gave the care he needed. It helped him. After a
day, his blood pressure increased and thinking of the fall, a feeling of fear
came over him. He said that there was a God-fearing man at that time around him
who said that there was an invisible hand holding him. That man also spoke of the
power of the Holy Eucharist to him. My brother did believe that due to the
prayers of my Mother, and the good people around him strengthened him. He was
happy to get a priestly blessing from me. Speaking to him over the phone, I realized
that the event reawakened him and reordered/reoriented his living principles:
-
“I know that it is not money that matters, but
the help you do with the money you get and bring relief to the people most in
need.” He spoke of contributing a little amount to a sick man in the
neighborhood and keeping apart a day’s wage to help people. He made a resolve
to bring this decision into practice. He is not a government employ or does he
have a guaranteed job. He relies on the work he gets.
What I am (the present) – How I Act? – what should be? (the ideal). We normally
fear the unknown. But if the unknown happens, we redirect our attention and
bring changes to the cognitive dimensions of the already known. We then adjust
our behaviors. In fact, we are biologically prepared to adjust. As Jordan
Peterson says, “we act to transform where we are into what we should be.”
Monday, August 3, 2020
പ്രാർത്ഥന ഒരു നീണ്ട നോട്ടമാണ്
Wednesday, July 22, 2020
What does Consuming Pesticide Reveal of Human Existence?
s
the innate beauty of being human. Tuesday, July 7, 2020
What is in 'Sufiyum Sujathayum'?
We need to engage with the popular form of arts as you find the seeds of the word scattered all over. Young watch movies. Don Bosco said, “Love what the young love.” So, I watched the newly released Malayalam movie, “Sufiyum Sujathayum” on Amazon Prime. I find snippets of the movie being posted on the Whatsapp status of my contacts. I thought I should write my impressions of the movie. - Everything is a pointer to something greater: The film has the scenes of doves. The song, “വാതുക്കല് വെള്ളരി പ്രാവ്” Dove is a symbol of innocence and love, a symbol of something pure. At the death of Sufi, there is an image of a dove. At the beginning of the movie, Muezzin in conversation with Sufi tells him about the doves that stay in the attic. When renovation takes place, they will be taken care of by the almighty and then he says this heart touching words, “It is deceased that needs space.” What could be that space? When Sufi suddenly dies and is buried, he definitely gets a bit of earth to bury his body, but the space that he created in the heart of Sujata is not limited to the earthly space. It is vast. Love has no boundaries – boundary of religion, the boundary of societal norms (a Hindu girl should not marry a Muslim, or a Sufi priest involved in the things of God should not love a girl or marry), the boundary of an established marriage, etc.
- You cannot sufficiently express what is Real! The fact that the heroine is a dumb girl who truly loves is a point in place to explain that one cannot sufficiently express in words what is real. You can only attentively hear, notice, experience, and feel. The title song has words that are flavored with a tinge of mysticism = “the doves knocking with words,” “the breeze that whirls around, kissing between my eyes,” “the parrots that chant prayers”… all these are slices of love; “the radiance of love turns even pain into honey drops”, yet that’s only a page, not the whole book, it’s only a chapter, not the entire story.
- What can make you happy? It’s following the rhythm of your heart that makes you happy. Any number of arrangements, adjustments, and toleration will not make you happy. Just consider the conversations in the movie. “Don’t leave, you know what a joy it is to see you.” (Sufi tells to Sujatha). If we put this conversation against, Dr. VR Rajeev, the NRI, He tells the parents of Sujatha, “isn’t it natural for couples to have some minor quarrels? When the concern for the husband is missing, they tend to be louder….. I have never been happy in my married life. Attachments do not make you happy but an absolute surrender to the divine will give you the serenity to accept life as it is.
- A Question: can you really forget true love? No. death cannot separate. Absence cannot separate. St. Paul in his letter to the Romans, says, “For I am convinced that neither death, not life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom 8:38,39).
- Sufi: Come, I am your redemption and salvation.
- Prayer is better than sleep….
- Aboob to Sujatha: Sleep well. When you’re in deep slumber, only the almighty will be with you. God is what you breathe. Do you snore? They say Satan resides in the nose tip of those who snore. Be it Satan, demon, or angel, it can enter your mind only after you wake up. So you must get some deep sleep. It’s only when they are awake, people remember their own names. There is no untouchability when you sleep. Do you think about caste, religion, anger, sorrow or hate in your sleep? Not at all. Only the Almighty…all these are mere illusions. Illusions of the sleepless folk. Sufi’s musical prayer call was an illusion. The world is enormous. You can hear him from wherever you are. That’s enough. That’s enough, Sujatha….
Monday, June 15, 2020
Learning from my Elder Brother
Tuesday, May 19, 2020
വിശ്വാസം മഹാമാരിയായ കോവിട്-19 പശ്ചാത്തലത്തില്
Monday, May 18, 2020
ഭാവി തുടങ്ങുന്നത് ഇന്നാണ് നാളെയല്ല
Friday, May 15, 2020
The Level of Intimacy Depends on the Level of Self-disclosure
"I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father" (Jn 15:15)
- Friendship of Utility: In this kind of friendship, the affection that unite people is based on the mutual benefit. Each person gets something out of the friendship that is to his or her advantage. Here I am not concerned about a deep self-disclosure but I am looking out to get something out of the other person. For instance, I had a technician who used to maintain the RO (reverse Osmosis) system. He convinced me that he could take on Annual Maintenance at a lower prize. In fact, he kept a very good functional relationship, very pleasing. What I needed was a lower cost maintenance which he gave me. What he needed was money. The servicing was done but I found out that he was only doing 'Juggaad' without any incurring of expense and keep the system functioning. Once the trick was found out, the relationship was broken. So this friendship was based on utility.
- Pleasant Friendship:It is based on the pleasure that one gets out of this relationship. In this type of relationship, one sees the friend as a cause of some pleasure for himself or herself.
- Virtuous Friendship: This friendship is not based on self-interests but the two friends unite themselves in the pursuit of a common goal. The common goal places a demand on the friendship.
- The lowest level of self-disclosure is the communication of data about myself. If I do not reveal the basic facts about myself, there is no knowledge, no relationship. The People of the time of Jesus knew him as one born in Nazareth, a carpenter's son, etc.
- Intimacy to grow to a slightly higher level, one needs to disclose ones opinion, especially what one thinks about something or someone. Jesus raises the level of the intimacy of the disciples when He asks them the question - Who do you say that I AM? Peter expresses the commonly held opinion and also his personal opinion - You are the Christ.
- The Next level of intimacy is the expression of feelings. Here I reveal what something means to me. Jesus says, "I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete." Jesus longs that you and I are united to him like the Vine and the branches. So he expresses his feelings.
- Another higher level of self-disclosure is the level of attitudes. It falls under the realm of decisions. In fact, attitudes are decisions I have made about the way life is or the way it ought to be. An attitude has the combination of both the opinion and feeling. Prejudice is an attitude. For example, in the Acts of the Apostles, Chapter 15, we come to know that there was a difference of opinion with regard to the gentiles who became Christians. The pharisees insisted that they be circumcised. Reading into the text, though I am not allowed, there must have been feelings of superiority and inferiority. Paul and Barnabas disagreed. The Jerusalem Council took place. When you sincerely disclose, even your hidden prejudices becomes apparent. If you have an attitude that life is gracious, you will express gratitude and appreciation.
- The highest level of self-disclosure is the level of faith. It is the most difficult to communicate directly. This is perhaps the reason why Jesus showed it by shedding his blood on the Cross. Even though Jesus predicted his death, the disciples did not get what he meant. Even though he wanted to be always present with them, the disciples did not understand what he meant at the last supper. But they understood later.
Wednesday, April 15, 2020
True! God's ways are not our ways
- HE knew what would happen to the disciples after his death, the direction they would take. The two disciples, one of them named as Cleopas and the other the unnamed 'you' get away from JERUSALEM (the centre of worship) and get back to Emmaus (perhaps to their former way of life...Just like the disciples who left after hearing the Hard Eucharistic Discourse). God in his Providence allows all these to happen.
- JESUS seems very unfair when he calls the disciples 'foolish men'. Imagine after four years of theological formation, i have not learned or personally understood the person pointed to by the Sacred Scripture. What else can I be called other than 'foolish'? Perhaps Jesus today tells me to read the Scripture with HIM and listen with wrapt attention to every word He speaks rather than complaining about the poor and inefficient theology professors.
- JESUS is very courteous that unless you invite him to stay, he will not stay even it is late night.....Stay with me Lord....It's the feeling of your absence that hurts me.....It's the unclarified convictions, faulty perceptions that make me go foolishly away from your Presence. Stay with me.
- You cannot cling to God because HE is beyond your grasp. When Jesus reveals himself, lead you to clarity, you can't just stay on but need to return the same hour -"And they rose that same hour and returned to Jerusalem;" (Luke 24:33).
Tuesday, April 14, 2020
Jesus is Alive! Do you Feel Him?
|
P
|
|
|
|
“It is one of the curious anomalies of present day civilization that when man achieves greatest control over nature, he has the least control over himself. The great boast of our age is our domination of the universe: we have harnessed the waterfalls, made the wind slave to carry us on wings of steel, and squeezed from the earth the secret of its age. Yet, despite this mastery of nature, there perhaps never was a time when man was less a master of himself. He is equipped like a veritable giant to control the forces of nature, but is as weak as a pigmy to control the forces of his passions and inclinations.”Fulton Sheen, The Moral Universe
|
All
those who seek truth, seek God, whether this is clear to them or not.”
-
Edith Stein
|
|
“Keep back
nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing
in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead. Look for
yourself and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness,
despair, rage, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and
with Him, everything else thrown in”
- C.S Lewis, Mere Christianity
|

