Thursday, December 24, 2020

When God Comes....

When God comes, what happens to you? 

Either a total change or a stiff resistance.
A total change is characterized by the power of God overshadowing you. Do you feel it?
A stiff resistance is characterized by the scheming of Herod as he felt displaced by the coming of the king of the universe. He felt that he is incharge of his life and surroundings. Do you feel a sense of displacement? Or do you ever feel that your actions have a negative consequence aimed at thwarting the flow of a fully lived life? Do you see? Actions speak louder than words.
  • When God came to Mother Mary, she became a Carrier of God. She became pregnant. When she said "yes" to God, it changed her personal life, family life (she was betrothed to Joseph), and the course of the history of the world. Let us say an unconditional yes to God. It will change everything. But the change will always be discomforting (your comfort zone will be affected).
  • When God came to Joseph, he was no less affected. He had to discern to first of all to accept or reject the mother of God. He gives the charge of his life to God and allowed God to lead him. Then what happened? He became the protector of the humanity and divinity of Christ. When God comes you will go to any extend, wade through difficult waters of all sorts of inconveniences. 
  • However, when God comes to a ruler (Herod), it really unsettled him (in fact the entire Judea was shaken). He never allowed his impulsivity to be transformed, it led to violence and destruction. Herod is like some of us who pushes our plans and fail to know the ways of God.
God comes when you decide to be generous with your life and resources (that means other significant lives are important....So you are not limited only to your comfort zones). God comes when you allow yourself to be led by God at all moments of your life (this means that you believe that One who is in control of your life is not you but "God").
Let's birth our Savior at this Christmas!
Let's allow ourselves to be led at this Christmas!
Wish you a very Happy Christmas!

Saturday, November 21, 2020

A Mandala Drawing Reveals So much!!

 

Explanation of Mandala

In the outer circle, I used the symbol signifying a ‘down-up’ or ‘up-down’. This representation is an answer to the question- how does the concept of self evolve in the life span of an individual? I am part of a dual ‘up-down’ or ‘down-up’ movement. In the process of an ‘up-down’ movement, everything is a given – the gift of life, the situation I am born into, my upbringing, historical circumstances, health, parents, name, friends, etc. This is the revelatory aspect of life itself. Everything points to something. Special emphasis is given to the downward movement in the sense of the ultimate Self (God) coming down as a man. This means that I understand myself in the larger story of God becoming a man (Jesus). Everything stands revealed in Jesus. This has a theological underpinning in the context of revealed religion, especially Christianity. God becomes human to make me into the image of himself. As opposed to the concept of self-realization propounded by Carl Jung, I realize myself in God. It is divinization. What is involved here is the ‘making sense of the given’. This making sense of what is given is the process of ‘down-up’. Moving upward is taking into consideration all that is revealed, the beliefs that I share with the community or tradition I belong to, and the personalization of it comes through a personal search. When nature is sustained by grace, there is a fulfillment and a constant drive towards ‘that which fully satisfies’ (God).

The second circle is the ‘eye’ representing the senses. The senses are the windows to the knowledge of the self. The physical senses help the ‘inner eye’ to perceive the depth of realities. The world around us can affect us either positively or negatively. I cannot really realize myself as I am exposed to numerous obstacles – addictions, violence, corruption, ignorance, betrayals, greed, power struggles, and numerous other growth stunting influences. The heroes move ahead with a new narrative to the crippling experiences of life although they cannot change or undo what happened. What brings to my mind is the story of Joseph in the Old Testament. He was sold into Egypt by his own brothers (betrayal of trust), in Egypt, the wife of Potiphar tried to seduce him (sexual temptations), the goodness and the good sense in him raised him to a high position. He narrated his life from a divine perspective. Understanding life experiences from a divine perspective helps one not to become bitter but helps him/her live his/her life better.

The third circle is the ‘yin and Yang’ symbol. This represents the most common experience of human reality – the good and the evil, light, and darkness, optimism and pessimism, order and chaos.  Our personality too has this dual nature characterized by the tendency to do good and to do evil. The evil always lurks behind us. I believe that everyone has an Achilles heel or what the Greek literature calls, ‘hubris.’ I call it as a limitation in every man/ woman. Carl Jung would call it shadow. Man cannot contain the evil in himself. The mass genocide, the final solution of the Nazis, the violence perpetrated by the fanatical groups or the untold wreckages left by wrong ideologies are historical manifestations of the power of the evil in man. Man, by nature is not accustomed to chaos and prefers order to chaos. A human being by nature is good, but his orientation to the good can get corrupted through negative experiences and events. Hence, containing the evil within or the corrupting tendencies is an important function of every human being. Everything cannot be understood with mathematical precision. And so there needs to be leaning on to what gives ultimate meaning to human existence. I cannot save myself. I need divine assistance. A final resignation to what is divinely willed and reconciliation with self, God, the world form part of the inner core of the self-fulfillment.

The innermost circle is represented by a ‘directional cross’ surrounded by signs of ‘love’ and ‘drop of blood’.  The directional cross implies that our suffering has a meaning. It can be understood only from the vantage point of love. Every human being is loved into existence. However, freedom in us can choose against divine love. What is necessitated is a shedding of blood in love. Sacrifice is an essential element of human striving or divinization. This is also represented in proverbial wisdom – “No pain, no gain.” The center of the directional cross is the symbol ‘IHS’ for the name Jesus. For me, the realization of self is possible only through the revealed name of Jesus. He is not an archetypical figure but a real person in history. He has won the victory over evil through his suffering. He is victorious and he rules everything. Surrender to the divine will is a way to attain salvation. Imageries or interpretative categories are only determinants to arrive at a concrete person, i.e., Jesus. ‘IHS’ is also a eucharistic symbol, which tells us of the necessity of ‘remembrance.’ Memory of life events, the processing of the same play a major role in integration and healing. Healing of negative emotions and memories, acceptance of what cannot be changed are processes involved in wholeness.


Monday, September 28, 2020

Facing the Unknown Helps you Reorient

 

My brother had a fall from the front parapet of the first floor of the building. He was at work as usual and never expected to fall. But it did happen. The unknown happened. He felt that the fall could have either incapacitated him to work again or caused his death. The people around him instantly gave the care he needed. It helped him. After a day, his blood pressure increased and thinking of the fall, a feeling of fear came over him. He said that there was a God-fearing man at that time around him who said that there was an invisible hand holding him. That man also spoke of the power of the Holy Eucharist to him. My brother did believe that due to the prayers of my Mother, and the good people around him strengthened him. He was happy to get a priestly blessing from me. Speaking to him over the phone, I realized that the event reawakened him and reordered/reoriented his living principles:

-          “I know that it is not money that matters, but the help you do with the money you get and bring relief to the people most in need.” He spoke of contributing a little amount to a sick man in the neighborhood and keeping apart a day’s wage to help people. He made a resolve to bring this decision into practice. He is not a government employ or does he have a guaranteed job. He relies on the work he gets.

What I am (the present) – How I Act? – what should be? (the ideal). We normally fear the unknown. But if the unknown happens, we redirect our attention and bring changes to the cognitive dimensions of the already known. We then adjust our behaviors. In fact, we are biologically prepared to adjust. As Jordan Peterson says, “we act to transform where we are into what we should be.”

Monday, August 3, 2020

പ്രാർത്ഥന ഒരു നീണ്ട നോട്ടമാണ്

St. John Mary Vianney ഒരു നല്ല വയസ്സ് തോന്നിക്കുന്ന ഒരു വ്യക്തിയിൽ നിന്നും ശരിയായ പ്രാർത്ഥന എന്തെന്ന് ഗ്രഹിച്ചു. എല്ലാ ദിവസവും ആ വ്യക്തി തന്റെ പ്രായത്തിന്റെ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുകൾ മറന്ന്, സക്രാരിയിൽ സന്നിഹിതനായിരിക്കുന്ന നാഥനെ കുറച്ച് അധികനേരം തുറിച്ചു നോക്കും. പള്ളിയുടെ പുറകിലുള്ള കുമ്പസാരകൂട്ടിൽ നിന്നും വിശുദ്ധൻ കൗതുകപൂർവം നോക്കി ആശ്ചര്യപെടും. ഒരു ദിവസം വിശുദ്ധൻ പ്രായമുള്ള അപ്പാപ്പനോട് ചോദിച്ചു: താങ്കൾ എന്താണ് ദിവസവും അൽതാരയിലേക്കു തുറിച്ചു നോക്കുന്നത്? മറുപടിയായി വന്നത് ഒരു ജ്ഞാനത്തിന്റെ മുത്ത്:

"I look at Him and He looks at me" (ഞാൻ അവനെ നോക്കുകയും അവൻ എന്നെ നോക്കുകയും ചെയ്യും).


പ്രാർത്ഥന ഒരു നീണ്ട നോട്ടമാണ്. ദൈവസാന്നിധ്യം നമ്മോടു കൂടെ എപ്പോഴും ഉണ്ട്. നമ്മുടെ ജീവിത സാഹചര്യങ്ങളെ ദൈവം വീക്ഷിക്കുന്നതു പോലെ (സ്നേഹത്തോടെ, പരിഭവമില്ലാതെ, തെറ്റു കുറ്റങ്ങൾ കണ്ടുപിടിക്കാതെ - simple ആയിട്ടു) കണ്ടാൽ, എനിക്ക് അവനെ കാണുവാൻ സാധിക്കും......

ഒറ്റ നോട്ടത്തിൽ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ഗ്രഹിക്കാതെ, നീണ്ട ഒരു നോട്ടത്തിലൂടെ വസ്തുതകൾ ഗ്രഹിക്കൂ....

Wednesday, July 22, 2020

What does Consuming Pesticide Reveal of Human Existence?

On 16th July 2020, many Newspapers flashed the news of a 'Dalit couple' consuming pesticide in Guna district in Madhya Pradesh. The couple - Rajkumar Ahirwar and wife Savitri made an attempt at ending their life when they saw the 45 bigha plot with soyabean cultivation on it being destroyed by the bulldozers sent by the anti-encroachment team. It was indeed heartbreaking when they saw all their investment lost. This incident kept me thinking about Human existence and what it would possibly reveal.

Human Existence reveals conflict and Struggle 
 
Existence is struggle and conflict ridden. With Darwinian theory of natural selection and survival, we now understand that 'fitness' is what matters today. We have heard about 'survival of the fittest'. We also hear in the corporate world about the 'survival of the fastest and the efficient' and fitness is not what ultimately counts. In the natural world, for a lion to survive, it needs to prey upon other animals. Those animals that are preyed upon live in an apparent conflict-ridden world. Of course, human beings do not live preying upon other human beings. However, it can happen that human beings can manifest predatory instincts in varied ways. Mr. Gabbu Pardhi who leased the land that does not belong to him for money cheated the couple. No one willfully wishes to be cheated. It is a classic case of cheating the vulnerable persons for gain. Can we not say that the couple had purity of intention rather than encroaching on a land that did not belong to them. The intention of the couple was perhaps a temporary relief from their struggle through cultivation. However, the conflict widened when they realized that they had encroached a government land cut out for a government college. Who understands their struggle to maintain a family of eight members (parents and six children)? Could the anti-encroachment team wait till the harvest was done as the couple requested? What was the hurry in beginning the work of a college during lockdown days? The sweat of the poor is always tinged with the cry of struggle. Perhaps the couple lived in a constant struggle. But they could not handle the conflict when they realized that they have reached the end of the rope. When the bulldozers rolled in, Savitri went in and consumed pesticide, the husband followed her. Succumbing to helplessness is the result of a felt inability to face the predatory giants of corrupted humanity.

Human Existence reveals the innate beauty of the dignity of being human

As it can be gauged, the couple bore the burden of being landless, poverty-stricken. However, they mustered courage to do something worthy of human dignity (cultivation: to eat from the sweat of their brow rather than stealing or engaging in any act of easy money). They even took a loan to do such an act (as the neighbors suggest). They accepted the struggles of life and moved on amidst difficulties. That's the innate beauty of being human.

The cry of children tell us a bold truth "we are dependent on each other for survival". Just as the nature has an ecosystem, the family has an ecosystem of dependence. No man is an island. No human institution stands alone. We need each other. The cries of children tell us that the human values are on the verge of extinction.


Tuesday, July 7, 2020

What is in 'Sufiyum Sujathayum'?


We need to engage with the popular form of arts as you find the seeds of the word scattered all over. Young watch movies. Don Bosco said, “Love what the young love.” So, I watched the newly released Malayalam movie, “Sufiyum Sujathayum” on Amazon Prime. I find snippets of the movie being posted on the Whatsapp status of my contacts. I thought I should write my impressions of the movie. 

Alasdair MacIntyre, a Scottish Philosopher seems to have said, “If we want to know what to do, we must first determine the story to which we belong.” As a catholic priest, I belong to Christ, and to the story, He is unfolding. Having said this, the movie bases itself on the story of Sujatha falling in love with Sufi. She is enchanted by Sufi, falls in love, decides to live with him, interrupted by parents, and suffers separation. I think that this particular story fits in with the larger story of the journey of a soul to God. It tells of an unfulfilled longing of a soul for God in this life.  

The philosopher Soren Kierkegaard spoke of three stages that a human being passes through on the way to spiritual maturity. They are the aesthetic stage characterized by the preoccupation with the sensual; second is the ethical stage in which one transcends the sensual and accepts the moral obligation to tie up one’s life in love to another person as often happens in marriage; third, the religious stage, in which a person falls in love with God. This love is unconditional in the sense that one finds the infinite object that alone corresponds to the infinite longing of one’s heart. This resonates well with the movie.

Some quick insights from the movie.

  1. Everything is a pointer to something greater: The film has the scenes of doves. The song, വാതുക്കല് വെള്ളരി പ്രാവ്Dove is a symbol of innocence and love, a symbol of something pure. At the death of Sufi, there is an image of a dove. At the beginning of the movie, Muezzin in conversation with Sufi tells him about the doves that stay in the attic. When renovation takes place, they will be taken care of by the almighty and then he says this heart touching words, “It is deceased that needs space.” What could be that space? When Sufi suddenly dies and is buried, he definitely gets a bit of earth to bury his body, but the space that he created in the heart of Sujata is not limited to the earthly space. It is vast. Love has no boundaries – boundary of religion, the boundary of societal norms (a Hindu girl should not marry a Muslim, or a Sufi priest involved in the things of God should not love a girl or marry), the boundary of an established marriage, etc.
  2. You cannot sufficiently express what is Real! The fact that the heroine is a dumb girl who truly loves is a point in place to explain that one cannot sufficiently express in words what is real. You can only attentively hear, notice, experience, and feel. The title song has words that are flavored with a tinge of mysticism = “the doves knocking with words,” “the breeze that whirls around, kissing between my eyes,” “the parrots that chant prayers”… all these are slices of love; “the radiance of love turns even pain into honey drops”, yet that’s only a page, not the whole book, it’s only a chapter, not the entire story.
  3. What can make you happy? It’s following the rhythm of your heart that makes you happy. Any number of arrangements, adjustments, and toleration will not make you happy. Just consider the conversations in the movie. “Don’t leave, you know what a joy it is to see you.” (Sufi tells to Sujatha). If we put this conversation against, Dr. VR Rajeev, the NRI, He tells the parents of Sujatha, “isn’t it natural for couples to have some minor quarrels? When the concern for the husband is missing, they tend to be louder….. I have never been happy in my married life. Attachments do not make you happy but an absolute surrender to the divine will give you the serenity to accept life as it is.
  4. A Question: can you really forget true love? No. death cannot separate. Absence cannot separate. St. Paul in his letter to the Romans, says, “For I am convinced that neither death, not life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom 8:38,39).
The Punch lines in the film that I liked:    
  1. Sufi: Come, I am your redemption and salvation.
  2. Prayer is better than sleep….
  3. Aboob to Sujatha: Sleep well.  When you’re in deep slumber, only the almighty will be with you. God is what you breathe. Do you snore? They say Satan resides in the nose tip of those who snore. Be it Satan, demon, or angel, it can enter your mind only after you wake up. So you must get some deep sleep. It’s only when they are awake, people remember their own names. There is no untouchability when you sleep. Do you think about caste, religion, anger, sorrow or hate in your sleep? Not at all. Only the Almighty…all these are mere illusions. Illusions of the sleepless folk. Sufi’s musical prayer call was an illusion. The world is enormous. You can hear him from wherever you are. That’s enough. That’s enough, Sujatha….
I enjoyed the music, the sound, and the concept. However, at the end of the movie, I got a gnawing dissatisfaction and got me thinking. What is this life about? Do we long for what we do not get in this life? How did I lose my love life? Am I to live with the “givenness” of every situation and instances of life? The answer could be just two words = ‘love’, ‘Surrender’. In the forward of the spiritual classic “Abandonment to Divine Providence” written by Fr. Jean-Pierre de Caussade, Fr. Vincent writes: “the creator of the human heart knows there is no such thing as a “yokeless” life. The choice each of us faces is not, “should I place a yoke upon myself or not?” but rather, “Under whose yoke am I going to live? Whom shall I serve?” As we find that Sujatha never danced or could happily live with her husband, she finally gives away the rosary that was gifted to her by Sufi. That frees her. She gets on with life. Rajeev now understands his wife, without many words he takes her hand and Sujatha leans on her husband. In life things often do not move as per our perceived or planned interventions. But acceptance, love, and, surrender can take us off to a different level of existence.

Monday, June 15, 2020

Learning from my Elder Brother

My brother was at work when I phoned him. I asked, "what are you doing?" He said that he was helping out in fixing the roof of a house. The work that he now engaged in was 'iron roofing' rather than his 'wood polishing and painting'. I was amazed. He took up the available work. If he were to sit at home saying that he can't do any other work than 'wood polishing and painting', he could go on for some time and not long. He has a family to look after and to take care of the education of three children. My brother is a hero. His educational qualification is up to class 7. He learned from life. He continues to learn. He inspires me. Every work has its own dignity. You can earn a living when you are willing to do any work. Time is hard due to COVID-19. But the attitude towards work and life is nobler when you move on with life, no matter even if the worst befalls you. Difficulties are opportunities. Sitting idle and blaming situations are signs of purposelessness. Positivity and action are signs of a purpose-driven life. God bless you my dear "ഞാഞ്ഞ" (this is how I lovingly call him).

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

വിശ്വാസം മഹാമാരിയായ കോവിട്-19 പശ്ചാത്തലത്തില്‍

"ഞാന്‍ വിശ്വസിക്കുന്നു, മനസ്സിലാക്കാന്‍ വേണ്ടി, വിശ്വാസം മനസ്സിലാക്കാന്‍ പരിശ്രമിക്കുന്നു." ഇങ്ങനെയാണ് കാന്‍റെര്‍ബറിയിലെ വിശുദ്ധ ആന്‍സലേം എഴുതിയത്. മഹാമാരിയായ കോവിട്-19 പശ്ചാത്തലത്തില്‍, ദൈവത്തില്‍ നമ്മുക്കുള്ള വിശ്വാസം എങ്ങനെ സ്ഥിരീകരിക്കും? പലരും ചോദിക്കുന്ന ചോദ്യമാണ് - ദൈവം ഉണ്ടെങ്കില്‍, എന്തുകൊണ്ട് മനുഷ്യര്‍ക്ക് ദുരിതം ഉണ്ടാകുന്നു? മനുഷ്യനെ സ്വന്തം ഛായയിലും രൂപത്തിലും സൃഷ്ടിച്ചിട്ട് എന്തുകൊണ്ട് അവന്‍ മനവരാശിയെ കൈവിടുന്നു? ഈ ചോദ്യങ്ങള്‍ നമ്മളെ അലട്ടുന്നുണ്ടെങ്കിലും നമ്മുടെ ദൈവവിശ്വാസത്തെ മനസിലാക്കുവാന്‍ വേണ്ടി ചോദ്യം ചോദിച്ചാല്‍, നടക്കുന്ന സംഭവങ്ങള്‍ ദൈവീകദൃഷ്ടിയിലൂടെ കണ്ടാല്‍ അത് നമ്മളെ ദൈവീകവിശ്വാസത്തില്‍ ഉറപ്പിക്കും. നടക്കുന്ന സംഭവങ്ങള്‍ യുക്തിയുടെ തലത്തില്‍ മാത്രം ഉല്‍കൊള്ളുമ്പോള്‍, ഒരുപക്ഷേ അത് ദൈവനിഷേധത്തില്‍ അവസാനിക്കും. അങ്ങനെയുള്ള ഒരു പ്രേലോഭനമാണ് നീതിമാനായ ജോബിന്‍റെ ഭാര്യയില്‍ നിന്നു അവന്‍ കേട്ടത്: "ഇനിയും ദൈവഭക്തിയില്‍ ഉറച്ചുനില്‍കുന്നോ? ദൈവത്തെ ശപിച്ചിട്ടു മരിക്കുക" (Job 2:9). ദൈവീക ദൃഷ്ടിയിലൂടെ കാര്യങ്ങള്‍ ഗ്രഹിച്ച ജോബ് തന്‍റെ മറുപടിയിലൂടെ വിശ്വാസത്തിലൂടെ മനസ്സിലാക്കി സ്വന്തം ഭാര്യയെ ശകാരിക്കുന്നു: "ഭോഷത്തം പറയുന്നോ? ദൈവകരങ്ങളില്‍നിന്നു നന്മ സ്വീകരിച്ച നാം തിന്മ സ്വീകരിക്കാന്‍ മടിക്കുകയോ?" (Job 2:10).

വിശ്വാസം ദൈവത്തില്‍നിന്നുള്ള സൌജന്യദാനമാണ്. നാം തീക്ഷ്ണതയോടെ ചോദിക്കുമ്പോള്‍ ലഭിക്കുന്നതുമാണ്. അതുകൊണ്ടാണ് ദൈവവചനം നമ്മളോടു പറയുന്നത്: "ഉള്ളവന് നല്‍കപ്പെടും. അവനു സമൃദ്ധിയുണ്ടാവുകയും ചെയ്യും. ഇല്ലാത്തവനില്‍നിന്നു ഉള്ളതുപോലും എടുക്കപ്പെടും" (Mat 13: 12). വിശ്വാസം ഉള്ളവര്‍ തീക്ഷ്ണതയോടെ ദുരിതങ്ങളില്‍ നിലകൊള്ളുമ്പോള്‍ ഉള്ള വിശ്വാസം വര്‍ദ്ധിക്കുകയാണ് ചെയ്യുന്നത്. അല്പവിശ്വാസത്തോടെ ജീവിതസാഹചര്യങ്ങളെ കണക്കിലെടുക്കുമ്പോള്‍, ഒരുപക്ഷേ നമ്മുടെ ഉള്ള വിശ്വാസത്തെകൂടി നമ്മുക്ക് നഷ്ടപ്പെടും. വിശ്വാസത്തെ അളക്കുവാന്‍ നാം ഉപയോഗിക്കേണ്ട അല്ലെങ്കില്‍ ഉപകാരപ്പെടുത്തേണ്ട ഒരു തത്ത്വം പഴയനിയമത്തിലെ ജോസഫ് നമ്മുക്ക് പറഞ്ഞു തരുന്നുണ്ട്. ജോസഫ് സഹോദരങ്ങള്‍ക്കു തന്നെത്തന്നെ വെളിപ്പെടുത്തുബോള്‍ പറയുന്നത് ഇങ്ങനെയാണ്: "എന്നെ ഇവിടെ വിറ്റതോര്‍ത്തു നിങ്ങള്‍ വിഷമിക്കുകയോ വിഷാദിക്കുകയോ വേണ്ടാ. കാരണം, ജീവന്‍ നിലനിര്‍ത്താന്‍ വേണ്ടി ദൈവമാണ് എന്നെ നിങ്ങള്‍ക്ക്മുന്‍പേ ഇങ്ങോട്ടയച്ചത്" (Gen 45:5).

നമ്മുടെ ജീവിതത്തില്‍ മനസ്സിലാകുവാന്‍ കഴിയാത്ത കാര്യങ്ങളെ ദൈവീക സങ്കല്പങ്ങളില്‍ കാണുക. അങ്ങനെയെങ്കില്‍ മാത്രമേ നമ്മുടെ ജീവിതത്തിന്‍റെ അര്‍ഥതലങ്ങള്‍ നമ്മുക്ക് മനസിലാവുകയുള്ളൂ. ദൈവം നമ്മളെ സൃഷ്ടിച്ചെങ്കില്‍, നമ്മളെ രക്ഷിക്കുവാനും അവന്‍ ബാധ്യസ്ഥനാണ്. നമ്മുടെ ഭയത്തെയൂം, എങ്ങോട്ടും എത്താത്ത നമ്മൂടെയായി കരുതുന്ന നേട്ടങ്ങളെയും ദൈവത്തില്‍ ശരണം വയ്ക്കുമ്പോള്‍ വിശ്വാസം വീണ്ടും അതിന്‍റെ തീക്ഷ്ണ തലങ്ങളില്‍ പുനസ്ഥാപിക്കപ്പെടുന്നു.

നിങ്ങൾ ഭയപ്പെടുന്നതെന്ത്? നിങ്ങൾക്കു വിശ്വാസമില്ലേ? (Mk 4:40). യാത്രാ മധ്യേ കൊടുങ്കാറ്റിൽ പെട്ട ശിഷ്യരുടെ പ്രതീകരണത്തിനുള്ള യേശുവിന്റെ മറുപടിയായിരുന്നു. ശിഷ്യരുടെ വിശ്വാസം എവിടെ പോയി, നാഥൻ കൂടെയുണ്ടായിരുന്നല്ലോ? യേശുവിൽ അവർക്ക് ഉള്ള വിശ്വാസം നിലച്ചില്ലായിരുന്നു. വാസ്തവത്തിൽ അവർ അവനെ വിളിച്ചപേക്ഷിക്കുകയായിരുന്നു. "ഞങ്ങൾ നശിക്കാൻ പോകുന്നു. നീ അതു ഗൗനിക്കുന്നില്ലേ?" ഈ അപേക്ഷ ചൂണ്ടി കാണിക്കുന്നത് ശിഷ്യരുടെയും നമ്മുടെയും വിശ്വാസത്തിൽ ഉണ്ടായേക്കാവുന്ന കുറവുകൾ ആണ്.

വിശ്വാസം തുടങ്ങുന്നത് "നമ്മൾ രക്ഷിക്കപ്പെടണം" എന്നുള്ള തിരിച്ചറിവിലൂടെയാണ്. കഴിഞ്ഞ ഇടക്ക് ഒരു whatsapp ഇമേജിൽ കണ്ടതാണ് - ഒരു പണക്കാരിയായ സ്ത്രീ എന്ത് സ്പെഷ്യൽ ഉണ്ടാകണമെന്ന് ചിന്തിച്ചും, മറ്റൊരു പാവം സ്ത്രീ ഇനി അടുത്ത പിടി ചോറ് എങ്ങനെ കണ്ടെത്തും എന്നു അടങ്ങിയ ചിന്തിപ്പിക്കുന്ന ഒരു ഇമേജ്.... നമ്മുടെ സ്വാർത്ഥതയിൽ മറ്റുള്ളവർ അടങ്ങിയിട്ടില്ല. അതുകൊണ്ടാണല്ലോ ആരോ ഒരാൾ പരിഹാസ്യമന്യേ പറഞ്ഞത്: "ഉള്ളവർ തിന്നു മരിക്കുകയും, ഒന്നും ഇല്ലാത്തവർ വിശന്നു മരിക്കുകയും ചെയ്യുന്നു എന്ന്." നമ്മൾ ആരെയും ഗൗനിക്കുന്നില്ല. അങ്ങനെ വഞ്ചിയുടെ അമരത്ത് ഒരു പ്രശ്നവും ഇല്ലാതെ ഉറങ്ങുന്ന നാഥനോടു, സകല സൃഷ്ടികളുടെയും സൃഷ്ടാവിനോട്, ശിഷ്യര്‍ ചോദിക്കുന്നത് ഒരു നിദ്ധ്യമായ ചോദ്യമാണ്: "നീ അതു ഗൗനിക്കുന്നില്ലേ?". നമ്മളെ ഇതുവരെ സ്നേഹിച്ചവരില്‍ നിന്നു സ്നേഹം കിട്ടതാവുമ്പോള്‍, അവര്‍ നമ്മളെ ഗൌനിക്കാതെയിരിക്കുമ്പോള്‍ നമ്മുടെ മനസ്സില്‍, പ്രേഷോഭങ്ങള്‍ ഉണ്ടാകും. ദൈവത്തിനു 'മനുഷ്യനിലുള്ളത് എന്താണെന്ന് വ്യക്തമായി അറിയാം' (Jn 2:25).

"ദൈവത്തെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നവര്‍ക്ക്, അവിടുത്തെ പദ്ധതിയനുസരിച്ചു വിളിക്കപ്പെട്ടവര്‍ക്ക്, അവിടുന്നു സകലവും നന്മയ്ക്കായി പരിണമിപ്പിക്കുന്നുവെന്ന്  നമുക്കറിയാമല്ലോ" (Rom 8:28). അതുകൊണ്ടു നമ്മള്‍ കടന്നുപോയി കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്ന ദുഖസാഹചര്യങ്ങള്‍ നമ്മുടെ നന്മയ്ക്ക് കാതലാണ്.  God brings good out of evil. Because He is love and for love for me He suffered evil.

പ്രിയ സഹോദരങ്ങളെ, ദൈവം തിന്മയെ കീഴടക്കിയെങ്കില്‍, അതില്‍ നിന്നു അര്‍ഥമാക്കുന്നത് നമ്മുടെ രക്ഷയാണ് - മനവകുലത്തിന്റെ രക്ഷ. വിശ്വസിക്കൂ.

"കര്‍ത്താവായ യേശുവില്‍ വിശ്വസിക്കുക. നീയും നിന്‍റെ കൂടുമ്പവും രക്ഷ പ്രാപിക്കും (Acts 16:31).

Monday, May 18, 2020

ഭാവി തുടങ്ങുന്നത് ഇന്നാണ് നാളെയല്ല

"ഭാവി തുടങ്ങുന്നത് ഇന്നാണ് നാളെയല്ല" എന്ന് വിശുദ്ധ ജോണ്‍ പോള്‍ രണ്ടാമന്‍ പറഞ്ഞിട്ടുണ്ട്. പഴഞ്ചൊല്ലുകളില്‍ നമ്മള്‍ ഇങ്ങനെ കേട്ടിട്ടുണ്ടല്ലോ, "വിതക്കുന്നതെ കൊയ്യൂ" എന്ന്. ഇതൊരു യാദാര്‍ഥ്യം ആണ്. എന്തുകൊണ്ട്? നമ്മള്‍ ഇന്നെടുക്കുന്ന തീരുമാനങ്ങള്‍ നമ്മുടെ നാളെയായിരുക്കുന്ന അവസ്ഥയുടെ മേല്‍ പ്രഭാവം ചൊലുത്തുന്നുണ്ട്. അതുകൊണ്ടാണ്, ഞ്ജാനികള്‍ പറയുന്നത്: "ഒരു ചിന്തയെ വിതയ്ക്കു, ഒരു പ്രവര്‍ത്തിയെ കൊയ്യൂ; ഒരു പ്രവര്‍ത്തിയെ വിതയ്ക്കൂ, ഒരു ശീലം കൊയ്യൂ; ഒരു ശീലം വിതയ്ക്കൂ, ഒരു സ്വഭാവ ഗുണം കൊയ്യൂ; ഒരു സ്വഭാവ ഗുണം വിതയ്ക്കൂ, ഒരു വിധി കൊയ്യൂ."

നെപ്പോളിയാനോട് ഒരിക്കല്‍ ആരോ ഒരു ചോദ്യം ചോദിച്ചു, "എപ്പോഴാണ് ഒരു കുട്ടിയുടെ വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം തുടങ്ങുന്നത്?" കുട്ടിയുടെ ജനനത്തിന് ഇരുപതു വര്‍ഷം മുംബ് കുട്ടിയുടെ അമ്മയുടെ വിദ്യാഭ്യാസത്തിലൂടെ എന്ന് നെപ്പോളിയന്‍റെ മറുപടിയും. നീ ഇന്നെടുക്കേണ്ട തീരുമാനങ്ങള്‍ അല്ലെങ്കില്‍ ഇന്ന് തീര്‍കേണ്ട കാര്യങ്ങള്‍ നാളെത്തേക്ക് നീട്ടിവെക്കുകയാണോ? എങ്കില്‍ എവിടെയോ പ്രശ്നങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് തുടക്കം നല്‍കുകയാണ്. പഠിക്കുന്ന കുട്ടികള്‍ ഇന്നറിയേണ്ട കാര്യങ്ങള്‍ ഇന്ന് പടിച്ചില്ലെങ്കില്‍ നാളെ അതിന്‍റെ പരിണാമങ്ങള്‍ ജീവിതത്തില്‍ പ്രതിഫലിക്കും.

ചിലര്‍ക്ക് തെറ്റു പറ്റുന്നത് ശരിയായ ചിന്താധാരകള്‍ തെറ്റായി മനസിലാക്കുന്നത് കൊണ്ടാണ്. അങ്ങനെ ഒരു ചിന്താധാരയാണ് "ഇന്നില്‍ അതിഷ്ടിതമായ ജീവിതം." നമുക്ക് തോന്നുന്നതുപോലെ ജീവിക്കുവാന്‍ അല്ല. ഉത്തരവാദത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കുക. ചര്‍വ്വാക ചിന്താധാരയോട് യോചിച്ച് ജീവിച്ചാല്‍ നാളെ എന്നുള്ള ഭവിഷ്യ കാലം അതില്‍ അടങ്ങിയിട്ടില്ല. നമ്മുടെ നാളെത്തേ നാളെകള്‍ ഇന്നില്‍ അധിഷ്ഠിതമായ ജീവിതത്തില്‍ ഉല്‍കൊണ്ടു വേണം ജീവിക്കുവാന്‍.

നമ്മള്‍ ചിലരെ കുറിച്ച് പറയാറില്ലേ - ഇത് അവന്റെ തലയെഴുത്ത് ആണെന്ന്. നമ്മള്‍ നമ്മുടെ വിധിയാല്‍ നിയന്ത്രിക്കപ്പെടുന്നവര്‍ അല്ല. നമുക്ക് സംഭാവ്യമായ വിധിയെ നമ്മുക്ക് മാറ്റുവാന്‍ നമ്മുക്ക് കഴിയും. അതുകൊണ്ടല്ലേ പഴഞ്ചൊല്ലില്‍ പറയുന്നത്: "സമ്പത്ത് കാലത്ത് തൈപത്ത് വച്ചാൽ ആപത്ത് കാലത്ത് കാ പത്ത് തിന്നാം." ഇന്ന് തുടങ്ങൂ........

Friday, May 15, 2020

The Level of Intimacy Depends on the Level of Self-disclosure

"I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father" (Jn 15:15)

 In the background of the 15th Chapter of St. John's Gospel
Intimacy in a relationship grows or depends on the level of self-disclosure. If there is no self-disclosure, relationship does not grow or any sort of communication takes place. Friendship is a dialogue and not a monologue. The friend understands the other on the basis of the sharing that takes place. In the Gospel Jesus speaks of the relationship between a master and the servant. The servant does not have the whole picture of what the master thinks. To give you a full understanding of who God is to you and me, Jesus says, "I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing." Friendship is a mutual knowing based on intimacy and love. Intimacy is personal. Jesus' friendship with you and me is very personal - "It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain.."
If you look at friendship today, there is a tendency to remain anonymous and aloof. There is even a fear of being intimate. The word 'friend' just becomes a mere term in a social networking site. Or rather the modern day friendship is based on the mutual benefits that friends can derive from each other. Aristotle described three kinds of friendship long ago. It has relevance even today.
  1. Friendship of Utility: In this kind of friendship, the affection that unite people is based on the mutual benefit. Each person gets something out of the friendship that is to his or her advantage. Here I am not concerned about a deep self-disclosure but I am looking out to get something out of the other person. For instance, I had a technician who used to maintain the RO (reverse Osmosis) system. He convinced me that he could take on Annual Maintenance at a lower prize. In fact, he kept a very good functional relationship, very pleasing. What I needed was a lower cost maintenance which he gave me. What he needed was money. The servicing was done but I found out that he was only doing 'Juggaad' without any incurring of expense and keep the system functioning. Once the trick was found out, the relationship was broken. So this friendship was based on utility.
  2. Pleasant Friendship:It is based on the pleasure that one gets out of this relationship. In this type of relationship, one sees the friend as a cause of some pleasure for himself or herself.
  3. Virtuous Friendship: This friendship is not based on self-interests but the two friends unite themselves in the pursuit of a common goal. The common goal places a demand on the friendship.
When Jesus says, "You are my friends if you do what I command you," He says it with a condition - to do what he commands: Love one another. The friendship that Jesus prescribes is based on LOVE, not self-interests or mutual benefits. The highest form of friendship is defined by the sacrificial nature of his love for humanity - laying down his life. How do you get to grow to that stature of Christ to the point of sacrificing life. He gives a clue. He says, "I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father." Here is the point - The level of intimacy depends on the level of self-disclosure. Jesus does not keep anything for himself. He reveals everything. To become aware of your/my level of intimacy it is good to consider the five levels of intimacy explained by Fr. Keith Klark, in his book, "Being Sexual and Celibate":
  1. The lowest level of self-disclosure is the communication of data about myself. If I do not reveal the basic facts about myself, there is no knowledge, no relationship. The People of the time of Jesus knew him as one born in Nazareth, a carpenter's son, etc.
  2. Intimacy to grow to a slightly higher level, one needs to disclose ones opinion, especially what one thinks about something or someone. Jesus raises the level of the intimacy of the disciples when He asks them the question - Who do you say that I AM? Peter expresses the commonly held opinion and also his personal opinion - You are the Christ.
  3. The Next level of intimacy is the expression of feelings. Here I reveal what something means to me. Jesus says, "I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete." Jesus longs that you and I are united to him like the Vine and the branches. So he expresses his feelings.
  4. Another higher level of self-disclosure is the level of attitudes. It falls under the realm of decisions. In fact, attitudes are decisions I have made about the way life is or the way it ought to be. An attitude has the combination of both the opinion and feeling. Prejudice is an attitude. For example, in the Acts of the Apostles, Chapter 15, we come to know that there was a difference of opinion with regard to the gentiles who became Christians. The pharisees insisted that they be circumcised. Reading into the text, though I am not allowed, there must have been feelings of superiority and inferiority. Paul and Barnabas disagreed. The Jerusalem Council took place. When you sincerely disclose, even your hidden prejudices becomes apparent. If you have an attitude that life is gracious, you will express gratitude and appreciation.
  5. The highest level of self-disclosure is the level of faith. It is the most difficult to communicate directly. This is perhaps the reason why Jesus showed it by shedding his blood on the Cross. Even though Jesus predicted his death, the disciples did not get what he meant. Even though he wanted to be always present with them, the disciples did not understand what he meant at the last supper. But they understood later.
Abraham was called the friend of God. Why? St. James in his letter tells us, "You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by the works. thus the scripture was fulfilled that says, 'Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness, and he was called 'the friend of God' (Js 2:22,23).

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

True! God's ways are not our ways

Reflecting on the Emmaus episode, i found the following very intriguing:
  1. HE knew what would happen to the disciples after his death, the direction they would take. The two disciples, one of them named as Cleopas and the other the unnamed 'you' get away from JERUSALEM (the centre of worship) and get back to Emmaus (perhaps to their former way of life...Just like the disciples who left after hearing the Hard Eucharistic Discourse). God in his Providence allows all these to happen.
  2. JESUS seems very unfair when he calls the disciples 'foolish men'. Imagine after four years of theological formation, i have not learned or personally understood the person pointed to by the Sacred Scripture. What else can I be called other than 'foolish'? Perhaps Jesus today tells me to read the Scripture with HIM and listen with wrapt attention to every word He speaks rather than complaining about the poor and inefficient theology professors.
  3. JESUS is very courteous that unless you invite him to stay, he will not stay even it is late night.....Stay with me Lord....It's the feeling of your absence that hurts me.....It's the unclarified convictions, faulty perceptions that make me go foolishly away from your Presence. Stay with me.
  4. You cannot cling to God because HE is beyond your grasp. When Jesus reveals himself, lead you to clarity, you can't just stay on but need to return the same hour -"And they rose that same hour and returned to Jerusalem;" (Luke 24:33).
God's ways are not your ways, but God allows you to recognize HIM at your pace. Be prompt to act....

Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Jesus is Alive! Do you Feel Him?


P
eter Kreeft in his book Jesus Shock makes a statement, “only a live wire can shock you. A dead wire can’t.” I agree with this statement because I had an experience of catching a dead electric wire. My memory goes back to my childhood. We were playing ‘hide and seek’, I climbed on a tree top and just above the tree were electric wires passing. I accidently caught one of the three wires. I was surprised that nothing happened to me. I reasoned, ‘maybe there was a power failure at that time.’ I was not thrown out or burnt or received a shock. My resurrection faith tells me that ‘Jesus is Alive!’ If he is alive, the believing me should have a qualitative impact on my being a Catholic. If not, there are possibilities that you consider Jesus as a distant historical figure. You are born a catholic but never seriously thought over the Jesus impact. I tried to think it over. The following is the result. 

Jesus Christ is the Answer to Which Every Human Life is the Question
Its true that Jesus died for my sins. He loved me to the extent he laid down his life for me. But I am not able to just digest that fact ‘for love of me, he died for me’. Was he not mad? Crucifixion was a onetime event in the historical past and now I am chronologically distant from the original event. What is it to do with me now? 
‘Jesus Christ is the answer to which every human life is the question,’ said St. John Paul II. Scripture says that “There is salvation in on one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among mortals by which we must be saved” (Acts 4:12). That name is ‘JESUS’. This is a bold and unique claim that Christianity makes. My faith tells me that it has everything to do with you. The crucifixion and death of Jesus has eternal influence on me. However, I find myself a human being prone to error, doubts, weaknesses, sickness, death and other human proclivities. Why do I not experience the fullness of existence? Is it because I am free to choose when there is an offer of salvation/fullness? Why do I still see evil in the world even when I profess that God is good? Why do people still suffer and die? Amidst the coronavirus pandemic, human beings everywhere are under constant fear, there is a scarcity of enough healthcare facilities, angst, pain, sorrow, hunger, etc. Why can’t God put a stop to the pandemic Covid-19? All these questions are connected to our human condition.
 
Human Condition

The characteristics and key events that compose essentials of human existence, including birth, growth, emotions, aspiration, conflict and mortality can be understood as our human lot/condition.
Sometime back, a person asked me to pray for her father because he is addicted to drinks. He had been to several retreats and treatments, but he can’t just come out of his addiction to drinks. She specifically asked me to pray for him because she believed he would be eternally damned. I told her to love him as he is loved by God. He is sick and is stuck in his addiction. Now how can a human being lift himself up? He is created free but landed up in a situation in which he cannot lift him up. Will God save him, grant him the grace to overcome his weakness? If the man addicted to drinks takes his addiction till his death, is he really responsible? The force of habit has weakened his will. That is his condition. Will he be eternally damned? A human being endowed with reason is responsible for his actions. And so a psychologist applying the principle, ‘every man makes the best use of the resources available to him at a given point of time,’ would say that the opportunities that the addict got to transform himself like retreats and treatments would have been properly used. The principle of the psychologist does not work if the patient is untreatable.

Innocent suffering and unjust treatment are part of our human condition. Look at the lot of Lazarus as portrayed in the gospel of Luke (Luke 16:19ff). Lazarus is a poor man, covered with sores, at the gate of the rich man. He was very poor and was unable to provide for himself. He longed to satisfy his hunger with what fell from the rich man’s table. Both the rich man and the poor Lazarus received their rewards in the afterlife – Heaven for Lazarus and Hell for the Rich man. The rich man in his freedom would have used his abundance to ease the situation of Lazarus. But when someone gets too cozy with what is given, it is difficult to fundamentally opt for good. I tend to think that the freedom given to man is tricky and difficult. It became so due to the fallen nature of human beings. 

Dilemma: Man has Mastery over Nature but not Himself

A human person is endowed with freedom. If man is free why can’t he master himself? The predicament of man’s condition to master himself is best expressed by Fulton Sheen in his book, The moral Universe,
“It is one of the curious anomalies of present day civilization that when man achieves greatest control over nature, he has the least control over himself. The great boast of our age is our domination of the universe: we have harnessed the waterfalls, made the wind slave to carry us on wings of steel, and squeezed from the earth the secret of its age. Yet, despite this mastery of nature, there perhaps never was a time when man was less a master of himself. He is equipped like a veritable giant to control the forces of nature, but is as weak as a pigmy to control the forces of his passions and inclinations.”
Fulton Sheen, The Moral Universe
Man is trying to get at something as he is driven. Different psychologists in the past answered the question – what drives man? Sigmund Freud suggested that it is his will to pleasure; his ardent disciple Adler disagreed him and said, ‘it is will to power’; and Viktor Frankl through his experience at the concentration camps proved that it is ‘the will to meaning’ that drives man. If you read the confessions of St. Augustine, you can find all the above mentioned drives – pleasure, power and meaning. But what stands out is his being found by God or his innate drive characterized by ‘God search’ as expressed in his own words, ‘my heart is restless until it rests in God.’  Can a God search drive man to be found by God? This brings us to the point of fundamental option.

Fundamental Option: Either Or

The fundamental option is a gradual development of a basic orientation of one’s life either for or against God. This fundamental option is said to be for God if one’s life is fundamentally devoted to the love and service of others, and against God if one’s life is essentially devoted to self-love and self-service. In the context of St. Augustine’s life, the question is, how can you opt for God when you are a sinful man of concupiscence? This is a human predicament. Let’s understand this predicament through the phenomenological analysis of lust as given by St. John Paul II,
“The flaring up in man invades his senses, arouses his body, draws the feelings along with itself, and in some way takes possession of the heart. It causes the “outer man” to reduce the “inner man” to silence. Because passion aims at satisfaction, “it blunts reflective activity and disregards the voice of conscience.” Once the outer man has suffocated the voice of conscience and given his passions license, he remains restless until he satisfies the insistent need of the body and the senses for gratification. One might think that this gratification should put out the fire, but on the contrary, as experience attests, it does not reach the source of inner peace. He is only consumed.” [Christopher West, Theology of the Body Explained: A Commentary on John Paul II’s Man and Woman He created Them (Boston: Pauline Books & Media, 2007), 216.]
Every sinner desires that God may dramatically intervene to change his life. God intervened in the life of Francis of Assissi in the Church of St. Damiano. Or rather God prepared his heart for such an encounter. Saul became Paul through that intervention of God at Damascus, which in turn changed the course of his life. Does this mean that they had no problems with their daily choices and life situations? Don’t think so. They too had to struggle. Let go and leave it to God. Their heart was prepared gradually to opt for God. The saints allowed their passions to undergo a radical transformation and that’s how they could desire to love as God loves. Saints consciously searched God, found him and proclaimed him. With the treasure of the Christian revelation, what do I make of the uniqueness of Jesus?

Uniqueness of the Christian Claim and the Necessity to Correct the Existing Relativistic Patterns of Thinking

You hear in normal conversations today – why do you want to have an absolute claim that ‘Jesus is the ultimate Saviour of Human Kind? Why don’t you preach what Christ stood for like compassion, love, peace, healing, reconciliation and Joy? Or be like Christ and preach only when necessary as Francis of Assissi would say? After all, all religions are finally propounding ideals that are good for humanity. Finding yourself in a pluriverse of religions, can you digest the absolute claim of Christianity and understand its uniqueness? For peace and tolerance, are you still holding on to the view that ‘all ways of belief are equally valid and that the sages believe that ‘Truth is one, the wise perceive it differently’ (‘Ekam sat viprah bahudha vadanti?).  Or are you under the influence of a relativistic mentality? Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI identified that the biggest threat to Christianity today is ‘dictatorship of relativism’. The Christian claim is that God has absolutely revealed himself in Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ is our savior. Are you burdened by this conviction?[1]
 
You might think that claim to absolute truth is intolerance.[2] Not at all. Perhaps, the view of tolerance that we may have is ‘negative tolerance’ as often seen in not saying or doing anything that might offend the religious sentiments of other people (for the sake of not offending anyone setting a standard of behavior for all). When you use statements like, ‘in my personal opinion’, ‘I feel that’, ‘I sense that’, etc., you might be in the group of relativists or in the mindset of taking caution that what you say might not offend anyone who hears you. As against a relativistic mentality, man is capable of truth and that the truth requires criteria for verification and falsification. It must always be accompanied by tolerance. You might ask, how? I find the answer in what Pope Benedict XVI writes,
“The truth comes to rule, not through violence, but rather through its own power; this is the central theme of John’s Gospel: When brought before Pilate, Jesus professes that he himself is The Truth and the witness to the truth. He does not defend the truth with legions but rather makes it visible through his Passion and thereby also implements it” [Benedict XVI, Light of the World The Pope, the Church, and the signs of the Times: A Conversation with Peter Seewald (Bangalore: Asian Trading Corporation, 2010), 51].
The answer is that the Truth is a person – Jesus Christ. Jesus makes himself visible or as he says, “All things have been delivered to me by my Father; and no one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and any one to whom the Son chooses to reveal him” (Mat 11:27). Perhaps, the question of tolerance arises when religion is understood as ‘man’s search for God’ (personal effort at understanding who God is) rather than ‘God’s search for man’ (God reveals as man can be fully understood only in the light of God who shares in human condition).

In the multi-religious context of India, we can easily know how each religion takes on the human condition and speak of salvation. Buddhism would say that life is a cycle of suffering, death and rebirth and liberation from this cycle is through the practice of the eightfold noble truths. Hinduism with its deterministic view suggest that as you sow, you reap.[3] Moksha/salvation is your way up to God. 

Christianity believes that Human beings are created in the image and likeness of God, endowed with reason and freewill. He has the capacity to either accept God and fulfill the purpose of creation or entirely reject God. With the doctrine of Original Sin, it is believed that everyone is prone to sin. What God does through Jesus Christ is a rescue operation – redemption. St. Paul’s letter to the Romans tells us, “…all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God; they are now justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a sacrifice of atonement by his blood, effective through faith” (Romans 3:23-25). God became human to raise us up. “For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Cor 5:21).

All those who seek truth, seek God, whether this is clear to them or not.”
- Edith Stein

Christianity is revelation of God’s way down to man. Now what necessitated God to become man, suffer, die and rise again is God’s answer to the puzzle of human condition as expressed in the cry of St. Paul, “wretched man that I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!” (Romans 7:24, 25). St. Augustine discovered the newness of finding God and with great conviction, he said, “Late have I loved you, beauty so old and so new.” How did St. Augustine, who lived in the 4th century discover the Truth of Christ? Was he not chronologically distant in history?  Christ is The Timeless Truth and “all those who seek truth, seek God, whether this is clear to them or not” (Edith Stein). Jesus made that exclusive claim, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life” (Jn 14:6). Jesus is unique because he did not say that he found a way as Buddha or Confucius might say. He claimed that he is God, “I AM WHO AM”. He is a crucified Risen God. The first century Christians had the courage to die for him. My salvation is Jesus.
 
Jesus is risen! The Straightforward Answer of the First Century Christians to the Question Why they were Christians

Though Christianity was a banned religion in the Roman Empire, it grew exponentially. The cause of this exponential growth was the ‘Easter Effect’ as George Weigel calls in his article, “The Easter Effect and how it changed the World.” He speaks of the Easter effect:
“There is no accounting for Christianity without weighing the revolutionary effect on those nobodies of what they called “the Resurrection”: their encounter with the one whom they embraced as the Risen Lord, whom they first knew as the itinerant Jewish Rabbi, Jesus of Nazareth, and who died an agonizing and shameful death on a Roman cross outside Jerusalem.”[4]
The Resurrection of Jesus Changed everything as Jesus himself said, “Behold, I am making all things new” (Revelations 21:5). N.T Wright, a biblical Scholar would say that ‘the answer of the first Christians to the question why they were Christians was Jesus the Risen Lord.’ In fact, the Easter effect changed the early Christian’s understanding of the resurrection itself. The Jewish Christians believed in the general resurrection of the dead but what happened to Jesus was something new. St. Paul grasped that what happened to Jesus would happen to Christians too – “For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we shall certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his” (Romans 6:5). This insight of St. Paul that what happened to Jesus also will happen to us grew. And this insight is an “evolutionary leap’ in the human condition, as the Pope emeritus Benedict XVI described in the second volume of his Book Jesus of Nazareth

The early Christians were not afraid to proclaim the absolute truth of the Risen Christ. Look at the transformation brought about in the lives of individuals soon after the resurrection. Having met the resurrected Jesus, the persecutor Saul was transformed as Paul, an ardent disciple of Christ. He proclaimed Christ fearlessly. He regarded “everything as loss because of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:8). ‘Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel’, such was the stand of St. Paul. The discouraged disciples going to Emmaus were met by the resurrected Christ, were cleared off their false notions of the Messiah, and were left with their hearts burning though the disciples were very offensive in their speech. 

What should shake you and me out of our feeble faith is an ever fresh awareness of the eternal presence of Christ. Jesus is eternally new. He is eternally present. I peculiarly found a newness in Christ. He is alive. HE is a live wire and there is power. He is true to what he says, “I am with you always, to the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20). Perhaps, in my life nothing was making any headway because I considered Jesus as someone distant in history. Jesus though physically absent, he is ever present. The newness of Jesus is his shock treatment to you and me. You may be like the blind man at Bethesda, lying down sick for 38 long years, doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. But you can retrace your steps if you are willing to just blindly believe in the words of Christ, ‘get up and walk’ and sin no more. ‘I can get back’ realization of the prodigal through a thorough self-assessment of his condition of starvation, loneliness and death may enable us to understand that it is our wrong choices and decisions that led us to starve for the grace of God. When we choose what is godly, we can retrace our steps back in humility. Jesus is Alive!

“Keep back nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead. Look for yourself and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him, everything else thrown in
- C.S Lewis, Mere Christianity








                                                                                                         


[1] Shashi Tharoor in his book, The Hindu Way seems to suggest that there is a burden in being convinced of being in the group of those who claim to be in the true path. He writes, “…as a Hindu, I belong to the only major religion in the world that does not claim to be the only true religion. I find it immensely congenial to be able to face my fellow human beings of other faiths without being burdened by the conviction that I am embarked upon a ‘true path’ that they have missed. This dogma lies at the core of the ‘Semitic faiths’, Christianity, Islam, and Judaism. ‘I am the way, the Truth and the Life; no man cometh unto the Father but by me’(John 14:6), says the Bible; There is no God but Allah, and Muhammad is His Prophet’, declares the Quran, denying unbelievers all possibility of redemption, let alone of salvation or paradise…….i am proud that I can honour the sanctity of other faiths without feeling I am betraying my own” [Shashi Tharoor, The Hindu Way: An Introduction to Hinduism (New Delhi: Aleph Book Company, 2019), 12.] The way I read his statement is that he seems to suggest that absolute claim to truth is intolerance and a spirit of tolerance that motivates relativism is your desire to respect all views and all claims.
[2] In fact the Second Vatican Council’s declaration on the relation of the Church to non-christian religions states: “The Catholic Church rejects nothing of what is true and holy in these religions. She has a high regard for the manner of life and conduct, the precepts and teachings, which, although differing in many ways from her own teaching, nonetheless often reflect a ray of that truth which enlightens all men” (Second Vatican Council, Declaration Nostra Aetate, 2).
[3] This is not the only view in Hinduism because as Shashi Tharoor writes that it is a faith without dogma, it has no supreme authority. “IT is a timeless faith, populated by ideas at once ancient and modern, hosting texts, philosophies, belief systems and schools of thought that do not necessarily all agree with each other. But none has ever been rejected by some supreme authority as beyond pale; there is no such authority in Hinduism” (Shashi Tharoor, 14).
[4] George Wiegel, “The Easter Effect and how it changed the World,” originally published in Wall Street Journal, 30 March, 2018; retrieved from https://eppc.org/publications/the-easter-effect-and-how-it-changed-the-world/ , accessed on 14/04/2020.